If you prefer regular elastic waist instead of high waist please notify us within 24 hours after purchased. Without your notification the skirt will be made high waist style.. color : please check the color swatches for solid fabric. It is possible to combine the colors for the ruffles if you like. Neck scarf to match the skirt is $5, to purchase click here =If your butt is 40 inches and up please email before buy.=15 days to make it + 3 business days US shipping